By Brother Rihazudin – Rabi al-Awwal is a month of mercy and illumination. It is the month our beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was born—the one sent as a “Mercy to the worlds” (Qur’an 21:107). His life stands as a beacon of patience, perseverance, and unshakable trust in Allah.
In this blessed month, I reflect on my own journey, captured in my memoir If You Hug Me, I Will Fall. It is a story of seven surgeries, countless therapies, and decades of physical challenges. But more than a personal struggle, it is a testament to the universal lessons of resilience, patience, and balanced support—values that Islam calls us to live by.
Resilience: The Sunnah of Endurance
The Prophet ﷺ endured hunger, exile, ridicule, and loss, yet he stood firm with patience (sabr). In my own way, I have tasted hardship. Each therapy session, each attempt to stand again, reminded me of his saying:
“The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, while there is good in both.” (Sahih Muslim)
Resilience is not just a worldly trait—it is an act of faith. Like the Prophet ﷺ, who turned adversity into opportunity, I learned to transform pain into purpose.
Patience (Sabr): More Than Waiting
In Islam, sabr is not passive—it is active perseverance. Allah promises in the Qur’an:
“Indeed, Allah is with the patient.” (Qur’an 2:153)
My recovery taught me the same. Patience was not about waiting for health to return—it was about showing up, enduring with hope, and striving daily. It mirrors the patience entrepreneurs need in business, students in exams, and families in life’s trials.
Balanced Support: A Prophetic Example
The title of my memoir, If You Hug Me, I Will Fall, reflects a delicate truth. Too much support weakens, but balanced support empowers. The Prophet ﷺ built companions who were not dependent, but independent—leaders in their own right. He guided without suffocating, empowered without controlling.
My journey, supported by parents, siblings, in-laws, mentors, and buddies, reflects this Prophetic wisdom. They gave just enough for me to stand tall, without falling under the weight of overprotection.
Visionary Thinking: From Survival to Service
The Prophet ﷺ was not just a survivor of Makkah’s hardships—he was a visionary who built a just society in Madinah. His foresight inspires me to move beyond survival.
Today, my goal is not merely to heal but to contribute—to write, to build accessible platforms, to inspire others through patience and Stoicism. In doing so, I align my vision with the Prophetic model: creating impact that outlives me.
Accessibility: A Right for All
Because I know the pain of struggling with small fonts, I enlarged the text of my memoir and chose a reader-friendly design. To me, accessibility is not charity—it is justice. In Islam, every believer deserves an equal share of the “cake”—the ability to learn, read, and grow without barriers.
Why Rabi al-Awwal Matters for Us All
Rabi al-Awwal calls us to embody the Prophet’s ﷺ resilience, mercy, and vision. For me, it is a reminder that healing is not just physical—it is spiritual. And for all of us, it is a chance to renew our patience, strengthen our sabr, and build lives of purpose.
