Ramadan is always a very special time for Muslims all over the globe.
It’s a time for getting closer to our Creator, for spiritual healing, for seeking Allah’s forgiveness.
However, sometimes we don’t really know how to get our children feel the uniqueness of this holy month; some other times it is even difficult to make them accept the rituals of Ramadan and understand the real meaning behind it. We consulted the advice of a range of counselors on this issue and they provided a wealth of ideas which we can all share.
To begin with, it is important for children to understand what Ramadan is all about and how it fits into the overall life of a Muslim.
That’s why parents should sit with their children and have a talk about Ramadan.
1– Choose a relaxed time with your child before Ramadan, and introduce Ramadan so that he can understand.
Think of a friend or family member who is dear to your child’s heart. Ask him how he would feel if this person comes to visit you for a short while with all the presents and sweets he or she brings along.
Would this visit make him happy? why? Link this to the arrival of the holy month, which comes only once a year with a lot of sweets too.
2- Prepare a simple action plan to get ready together for the arrival of the dear guest.
How would you plan for your guest? Put the action plan together for preparing the house and yourselves for the arrival of the holy month.
3- Talking to your child about the doors of Paradise being open in this holy month is highly recommended.
You can even make a tour every night into Paradise and take a closer look at what Allah has prepared for those who obey Him in this holy month.
4- Get your children help prepare suhur and iftar meals.
5- Get them to give in charity so that they realize all of the blessings of Ramadan.
Teach the kids to make du`aa’. Let them know they can ask for anything they want. Teach them to ask for things for others as well as for themselves.
